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3 ways to emotionally prepare yourself for divorce

| Dec 11, 2017 | Divorce

If your marriage is in trouble, you may be coming to the decision that you should leave. Deciding to get a divorce is a monumental decision that comes with a lot of consequences. It can be better for you in the end, but the proceedings are often overwhelmingly emotional. 

So, are you ready to end your marriage? Before you officially file for divorce, here are some techniques to emotionally prepare yourself. 

1. Allow yourself to grieve

You will feel a lot of denial, anger and depression as you head toward your divorce. This is normal. However, you have to accept it and go through the healing process. Grieving does not mean you need to sit in a dark room and cry constantly, but it does require you to come to terms with the fact that your relationship is coming to an end. It may take some time for you to officially move on, but try to remember that you can be happy again despite this difficult time. 

2. Be there for your children

If you have kids, you probably have concerns about emotionally scarring them. However, a toxic marriage can be just as damaging if not more so. Come to terms with the fact that you can never be a perfect parent, but make sure you do not tune out from your children as you get a divorce. According to the American Psychological Association, one of the best ways to healthily get through your divorce is to help your kids. Communicate with them consistently and show empathy. 

3. Seek support

You may feel the temptation to hide away before and during your divorce. Isolating yourself is one of the worst things you can do for your mental health. Make sure you keep in touch with family and friends throughout the process. Try a new hobby and exercise regularly. You may even want to talk to a therapist. 

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